The Complaint Contract

It is unwise for the therapist to assume that every couple who comes for therapy wants change. It is often the case that a couple want, instead, ...

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On Discovering an Affair

Discovering an affair usually rocks more than the foundation and can leave you feeling physically sick, d disorientated, completely unsure what you should do.

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The Paradox of Marriage

Long-term relationships are built on a paradox - not one we often talk about, or warn our teenagers about, but we should. The paradox, put simply, is that one ...

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Sex, Puzzlement & a Short History Lesson

It’s easy to believe that we have, as a society, become quite relaxed about sex. Sex is now an everyday thing in TV dramas, advertising, magazine articles, ...

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Sex, Fun & Individual Growth

Long-term relationships should offer each partner two things. The relationship should feel like the best place for individual growth. And it should be fun.

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My Partner Wants Sex, but I Don't!

This is a common situation in long-term relationships. Whichever side of the equation you are on, it can cause unhappiness ....

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